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How to spot fake Friends and how to detach them

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I don't know about you but friends do not mean much for me. I hate having friends or being surrounded with people who like and appreciate me because that is not the case. That is what a friends means, someone who likes and appreciates you as a human and who does not want to harm you. Merriam Webster says, one attached to another by affection or esteem . I see myself as a very open person and I do enjoy helping others. The problem is that I'm very fast to lose. I'm not perfect neither you are, but that is not what I want. I want them to do the right thing or else they lose me. Guess what they are doing? They do so much wrong and that is the reason why I like to be on my own at least most of the time. I love to be different. Why is it even sexy to be the normal? No, I don't do things just to get attention neither do I appreciate changing myself for others. I just want to do what I want. Let me explaine. For excemple ripped jeans are in, I hate wearing them, I eve...

How to be more likeable - 10 rules to achieve it

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I don't like to find friends. I'm not used to have friends. I have bad experience with some of my as I thought "friends". Here are some tipps which I think can help you be more attractive to others, no not in a sexual way. These are my opinions and you probably would do it differently. If so, share your opinions with a comment. Rules: Laugh often, be funny Have similar friends Stay as you are, don't change yourself Make compliments Help him or her out / be there for the person Search for similarities Give them something to eat or just a gift Go out with them Be a good listener Use positive body language Here the comment: Laugh often, be funny It is easy to say then to do it, Me, I often try to laugh about myself. It is hard to be funny I know, but it doesn't requier much. Just some irony or sarcasme and you probably are going to make them laugh. People who make someone laugh are mostly much more likeable. To be funny means to smile too. You know when ...

How I feel after seeing 13 Reasons Why

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Hello, firstly I'm going to explain to you my situation so that you can understand how I look, what I did, what I believe in and other facts. It is much easier to understand the context. I'm male. I'm 18 years old. I have a very similar haircut as Clay. I'm short. My Hair is brown as my eyes are. I'm in the age of Hannah and Clay. I've got a little brother. I love him, but we are often arguing. After a fight I feel so bad. My parents are quiet good parents. I go to high school and I'm not really into making friends. So I tried to keep being friendly, but it is just hard searching and keeping the new won friends. I do not trust anyone. I'm very sceptical and sometime just aggressive. I'm feeling so bad after a shout or a hit I did. I'm not used to talk to people but there are times where I'm really open and unstoppable. I don't know why and how I do that. I'm often very ambitious but not like to much... Yes I cried so many times whil...

Not many have issues with their bodies

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My body and me Luckily you don't know how I look. I often don't like my look because my body can't be compared to a models body. So it could be compared but it just would be stupid to do that. You lose time doing something which isn't important at all. Searching for a fitting model who could be compared with me. There was a time and I still do that where I compared myself . I often did look at bodyparts of others who were good looking and tried to see the similarities. Am I good looking aswell? Do I fit? I was trying to answer the question, whether my bodyparts have the same proportion, length or size. (By the way, I'm not talking about penises). I have to stop with that, because as I see it, it is not important to be like someone else. We all should except how we are. Thats the only and the best way. Sometimes, I just don't care what others thing about my appearance or my personality. Sometimes I just don't want them to be around me. Sometimes I care t...

Why are humans afraid?

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An excemple of my daily life Im afraid of so many things. And I guess it helps to talk about them, just to get them out. Well I probably won't reach anyone and can't bring him or her to think of her fears as I'm going to do right now. Fears can save our lifes as I read in a very old online report . Like 2008. When Barack was our man and we didn't know what will approche us, I was nine years old at that time. Yes I know, we all were innocent and didn't know the bad things, we were just kids. Open and abel to learn and be interested in everything and anything. I miss this time. As I wrote the first sentence of this post I didn't think about fear of high or death. I more thought of being afraid to talk or to present his own opinion and with that to influence the way of his/her life. Our brain is trained to be abel to react and to make decisions. I was just thinkig "What is my problem right know" and what came into my mind is, that I can't...

The person who you don't like and who might help you

Solve a problem and prepare for the life I read through some sites so that I can find a solution on how to deal with a boy in my class. It is happening for other people too I think and we all have to deal with that and even benefit from it. How to get alonge with them/him/her You have to accept that they exist. They are humans like you. But probably not that good or not the same kind as you (that would be weird). You have different kind of values so yo don't like the same think and you don't often don't have the same opinion. Next is, that you shouldn't never ever ignore them, bear with them, because they have different points of view or they are the kind who bring you to the real life or give you something to think about and to do better. It gives you chance to get better and to find solutions in. Use them. At this point you have to accept that you/we all aren't perfect.  We have corners and edges. . But yet there are still some people who tolerate you. ...