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How to be more likeable - 10 rules to achieve it

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I don't like to find friends. I'm not used to have friends. I have bad experience with some of my as I thought "friends". Here are some tipps which I think can help you be more attractive to others, no not in a sexual way. These are my opinions and you probably would do it differently. If so, share your opinions with a comment. Rules: Laugh often, be funny Have similar friends Stay as you are, don't change yourself Make compliments Help him or her out / be there for the person Search for similarities Give them something to eat or just a gift Go out with them Be a good listener Use positive body language Here the comment: Laugh often, be funny It is easy to say then to do it, Me, I often try to laugh about myself. It is hard to be funny I know, but it doesn't requier much. Just some irony or sarcasme and you probably are going to make them laugh. People who make someone laugh are mostly much more likeable. To be funny means to smile too. You know when ...

How I feel after seeing 13 Reasons Why

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Hello, firstly I'm going to explain to you my situation so that you can understand how I look, what I did, what I believe in and other facts. It is much easier to understand the context. I'm male. I'm 18 years old. I have a very similar haircut as Clay. I'm short. My Hair is brown as my eyes are. I'm in the age of Hannah and Clay. I've got a little brother. I love him, but we are often arguing. After a fight I feel so bad. My parents are quiet good parents. I go to high school and I'm not really into making friends. So I tried to keep being friendly, but it is just hard searching and keeping the new won friends. I do not trust anyone. I'm very sceptical and sometime just aggressive. I'm feeling so bad after a shout or a hit I did. I'm not used to talk to people but there are times where I'm really open and unstoppable. I don't know why and how I do that. I'm often very ambitious but not like to much... Yes I cried so many times whil...

Why I want to be better then others - and why you should too

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There was a time. No, not ten years ago. More like five years. Then, I often compared  myself to another boy. Not the looking. No, neither the behaviour. I was more interested in his marks. Yes. I always, till today, want to be better then him. In any point. Well, not in every. For excemple I don't care if he is doing better in sport then me or wether he is able to drink more alcohol then me. I just cared in the important subjects. I'm very ambitious and I weirdly don't feel like it. For excemple I often think that I wasn't very prdouctif, but in reality I did so much. I'm not used to do one thing in particular and then go to the other task (just if it isn't a big work). I do everything in small bits. Here are five statements: You are spurred to learn and to get a better mark then your rival I don't know how you are as a person, but if you are willing to be better then someone else, you are going to get better marks. Better is relative. I don...

Nostalgia

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Looking back at the past I was doing some stuff, I don't even know what I was doing, when I just thought of Macklemore and his songs. It was a thought and I just searched for it. That often happens. My brain reminds me of the good old time. Are this things even good to be remebered? Yes definetily. I'm actually listening to a song. ( Downtown ). As intelligent and curious as I was, I found his songs on an app and downloaded them. Nice songs which I hadn't hear befor. I really like them as I did before when I was a child. I'm still a child tho. Two days later in the school library I opened Youtube on a computer and I found the old videos and they reminded me of my past. Past. It is so weird to say, because they werejust  published two years ago. But in a way 2 years are long. For me past is the time were my grand-parents were young. Do you also find it odd that time is passing by so fast. This year is almost over. For excemple, I already know that my summer holidays ...

Not many have issues with their bodies

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My body and me Luckily you don't know how I look. I often don't like my look because my body can't be compared to a models body. So it could be compared but it just would be stupid to do that. You lose time doing something which isn't important at all. Searching for a fitting model who could be compared with me. There was a time and I still do that where I compared myself . I often did look at bodyparts of others who were good looking and tried to see the similarities. Am I good looking aswell? Do I fit? I was trying to answer the question, whether my bodyparts have the same proportion, length or size. (By the way, I'm not talking about penises). I have to stop with that, because as I see it, it is not important to be like someone else. We all should except how we are. Thats the only and the best way. Sometimes, I just don't care what others thing about my appearance or my personality. Sometimes I just don't want them to be around me. Sometimes I care t...

What is my blog about

Find your niche I've searched so many pages/blogs and everyone wrote that I or we have to find our own niche in which we are godd in and have enough information to tell and and teach the readers. Hereinafter I call these people "pro", because they think they are so good in what they are doing. I don't think that they are pros. They don't know everything. Who knows everything? Noone. First I thought that it is not important to have his own niche. Who cares if you once talk about avocados and once about Beyoncé? Many care. And thats why I realized that you have to specialize yourself in something particular. At the beginning of the thinking process I thought that I don't have a niche. I liked and do like to write about many things. Once french once english. Once about Justin Bieber onve about Dylan the bitch. I decided to set a topic. Something which is going to characterize my blog. My personality as a Blogger. I want to make this blog big to have you as a...

How to make guacamole

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Your hungry, aren't you? Let me explain what will come to you. I will show and explain you the recipe of guacamole, but sometimes I'm going to teach you something about avocado . What you need: 2    ripe avocados 1    lime       salt / pepper 2-3 garlic clove 1    onion 2    tomatos 2    tablespoons of yogurt So the avocado is old. very old. About 10000 years BC. It is suspected that it has its origin in Mexico. The scientific classification is persea americana. Back to the cooking: chop the onion and the garlic in peaces. Small big. I don't care. You do what you like. Then put that in a bowl. Then you open the ripe avocado. Here is a link how you do that. Mix that up with the onion.  Martin Fernandez de Enciso was the first who wrote about the fruit, but he didn't use the word avocado. Hans Sloane was the one who gave us a new word. AVOCADO.  You cut the tomatos in sma...

The person who you don't like and who might help you

Solve a problem and prepare for the life I read through some sites so that I can find a solution on how to deal with a boy in my class. It is happening for other people too I think and we all have to deal with that and even benefit from it. How to get alonge with them/him/her You have to accept that they exist. They are humans like you. But probably not that good or not the same kind as you (that would be weird). You have different kind of values so yo don't like the same think and you don't often don't have the same opinion. Next is, that you shouldn't never ever ignore them, bear with them, because they have different points of view or they are the kind who bring you to the real life or give you something to think about and to do better. It gives you chance to get better and to find solutions in. Use them. At this point you have to accept that you/we all aren't perfect.  We have corners and edges. . But yet there are still some people who tolerate you. ...

Tomorrow is the day

I'm with her  Yeah you right, I could have written earlier about this, but I want to do it now. The 08.11.2016 is the election day and it's quiet important for the USA. Not jst for the USA, for the whole world. What do I like about Hillary She is the one who learns for the small test. She is prepared. She wants to be perfect I guess. She wants to solve problems and not just talk. She has experience. A lote of experience. Where you could see, that she was prepared was: Vox video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IlLFTI24Qkw  I'm of the opinion, tha she deserves it. She did so much and has so much knowledge. Yea she probably isn't perfect, but who is perfect? She didn't do anything wrong and is hated for nothing. The problem is, that Hillary is working so long for the USA and now the people have problems with the state. And now Hillary Clinton is the scapegoat. Somthing else whats good about Hillary, is that she is more likeable. I know that she g...